[Before we proceed further in this direction: I'm amenable, but we need an explanation as to why the team doesn't already know this. Jedao's personal history has been scoured for every possible detail, and even the rebellion would have accessed a lot of that information. Reshad and Sasha in particular would have been good candidates for knowing this beforehand. Can you (or any other players) help me come up with a reason that Virmad's ex-ness would not have made it into the records, besides "oops it was a different timeline"?]
paging Reshad and Sasha, or anyone else willing to help